wow, just wow.

thank you for writing this.

while my 'traumas' didn't meet the level of your girlfriend's... i suddenly saw a dozen outtakes from relationships past... where 'abandonment issues', toxic-garden-variety people-pleasing, and the compulsion for perfection created a similar response in me to otherwise [let's assume...] push away PURE LOVE, or maybe 'healthier-lovers'... EVERY. TIME.

can hearts suffer from 'vaginismus'?

i believe they can.

holy cow.

thanks for this, dr. sizemore. i

i'm being kind of cheeky but not kidding.

mind. blown... and it's not even noon.

:-) :-/ :-o !!!