props to you, debbie... for your willingness to give it a go. being 'single' for the past 5-7 years [and i've got a decade on you, gf!] i'm far too feral for mating and from the little i've 'experienced' in the pond to date...i'll just watch y'all from my lily-pad... and at a safe distance!

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sending you good feels from nocal :-)