and my answer is the same... even when i was 'tethered'... #AWHOLEHELLUVALOT, tbh.

25 years w/a blues musician who traveled 3/4 of the year... means i likely valued being SINGLE more than i cared to admit or REALIZED.

i don't do well joined at the hip.

the 'idea' of a soulmate is forever-intriguing to a closet-bonder like me... but what's 'ideal' rarely works in real life.

so thank you for singing the praises of flying solo.

it's easy to bash it when you're IN IT... but frankly, if i wanted it to be different, it could be but as long as i'm ambivalent, i'll marinate in my indecision.

:) <3<3<3